How to Get Real Smiles in Your Family Photos | Berks & Montgomery County, PA Family Photographer

6/21/25

Let’s be honest — the best family photos aren’t the ones where everyone is perfectly posed and saying “cheese.”
They’re the ones filled with real smiles, playful laughs, and genuine connection.

If you’re planning a family photo session in Berks or Montgomery County, PA, here’s the good news: you don’t need to force anything. The secret to those joyful, frame-worthy photos? Letting your kids be themselves.

In this post, I’m sharing my go-to tips for capturing authentic family moments (and how YOU can help make that magic happen during your session!).


🧡 Tip #1: Encourage Play & Movement

Want your kids to actually enjoy family photos? Let them move!
Play is a natural smile-maker — especially for toddlers and young kids.

During your session, I’ll guide your family through fun prompts like:

  • Running toward each other
  • Swinging your child by the arms
  • Spinning in a circle
  • Dancing or playing a silly game

These kinds of playful movements create:
✔️ Natural expressions
✔️ Unscripted laughter
✔️ Memorable moments that reflect real life


👨‍👩‍👧 Tip #2: Parents, You’re Part of the Fun Too!

I know you might be thinking: “But I want the kids to smile!”

Here’s the secret — they will smile when you do too.

Kids respond best when their parents join in. So instead of standing off to the side or telling them to behave, try:

  • Holding their hands and walking together
  • Joining in the giggles and games
  • Offering cuddles, tickles, or silly faces

📍 Whether we’re at French Creek, Ironstone Park, or Daniel Boone Homestead, your love and connection as a family is what shines through most.


🎯 Tip #3: Don’t Force the Poses

The more relaxed you are, the more relaxed your kids will be.

If your toddler doesn’t want to sit still — that’s okay! We’ll follow their lead, switch it up, and keep things moving. You’ll end up with a beautiful mix of:

  • Candid moments
  • Emotional connections
  • Smiles that aren’t staged (but real!)

Remember: the goal of your family session isn’t perfection — it’s capturing what makes your family yours.


💬 Final Thoughts: Real Smiles Start with Real Moments

The best family photos happen when you stop trying to “get it right” and just show up as you are.
With some movement, laughter, and a little freedom to be silly, your kids will give us all the joyful smiles we need — no bribes required!

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